"Being a crossdresser doesn't mean you have to be bumping and grinding.

Femdom Crossdressing Party
Why do men cross dress?
Even psychiatrists have a tricky time with this one. They feel that it starts .....
One asked me, 'So my character becomes a transvestite, right?
They (usually) exclude transvestic fetishism and they usually do not include transsexualism, or transgender people who completely change their gender role. In the 1960s Harry Benjamin and others started working with people showing cross-dresser behaviour again. Unlike Hirschfeld, who had tried to find a social space where third-gendered people could live the way they needed or wanted, people showing other-gendered behaviour now were forced to find a way of living as "proper men" or "proper female".
The rise of the Nazis to power and the Second World War had brought an end not only to Hirschfeld's function, but to also most European research in the field of sexuality.