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People Cross Dress
Is Transvestism A FetishIs Transvestism a fetish? Even shrinks have a tricky time with this one. They believe that it starts around teenage, but, some young boys will ..... Why do people cross dress?
Even psychiatrists have a hard time with this one. They speculatethat it starts around early teens, but, some male children will experiment dressing up in for example their aunt's lingerie and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psycho-analysts don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guesstimate on why men choose to dress up as female: Transvestism is another term for crossdressing, and this and trans-genderism and the integration of both with bisexuality are often misinterpreted, even by some practising cross-dressers. A typical crossdresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not cross-dressing. He is not likely to be androgynous, will prefer women as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is female and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual arousal. It seems that the majority of transvestites are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Of course everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the transvestite will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of items of clothing he first used and have a fetish-like liking to them.
2/ His initial preferences will grow and he will slowly move on to other garments and finally into the wish to be dressed completely as a woman and to make believe for periods of time that he is female, but he will not want to go beyond masquerading and will longing to retain his male identity.
3/ He will fringe trans-genderism in that he will live and masquerade as woman for lengthy periods of time. The nothing but real difference between these alleged "secondary" transsexuals and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme cross-dressers, they have no wish to actually be full-time females.
WHY DO MEN Crossdress?
One theorem is that transvestism is a way of expounding a cry out against to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they feel wretched as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in women's garments occasionally. Some men cross-dress entirely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can entirely be sated by the comfort that wearing something feminine provides them.
For many crossdressers, dressing up is an unbelievably sexual activity. Most transvestites have their first crossdressing sensation around teenage or in adolescence. The first encounter is likely to be sexually exciting and the young person will carry on with the practice. However, cross-dressing is not just a sexual variation. There are many men who get a sexual thrill from crossdressing, but the accepted view of most experts on the subject is that they are not in the majority.
Free Crosdressing BoysWhy do people cross dress? Even psychiatrists have a difficult time with this one. They .....
One of the main reasons why men cross-dress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with a woman.
Crossdressers usually will do this in secret and enjoy when the wife and kids leave the home. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but think like they are simultaneously woman) However, many cross-dressers just enjoy the feel of certain materials against their bodies and go no further than simply dressing up. More and more transvestites are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their wives might accept the way they are on condition they keep it hush-hush and away from friends and family.Most cross-dressers are private about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Homosexual.
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