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Why Dress En Femme
why dress en femme?
Even psychiatrists have a hard time with this one. They believe it starts around puberty, but, some boys will experiment dressing up in for example their mother's panties and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. shrinks don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guesstimate on why men choose to dress up as full-time females:
Cross-dressing is another term for dressing in womens clothing, and this and trans-sexuality and the association of both with homosexuality are often confused, even by some practising cross-dressers. A typical crossdresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not cross-dressing. He is not likely to be androgynous, will prefer full-time females as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is a woman and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual arousal. It seems that the majority of transvestites are no more likely to go on to trans-sexuality than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Indeed everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the transvestite will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of clothes he first used and have a fetish-like bond to them.
2/ His initial preferences will grow and he will slowly move on to other clothing and finally into the need to be dressed completely as female and to pretend for periods of time that he is female, but he will not want to go beyond pretending and will wish to retain his male personality.
3/ He will border on trans-genderism in that he will live and effectively be woman for lasting periods of time. The only real distinction between these so-named "secondary" transsexuals and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme cross-dressers, they have no need to actually be full-time females.
WHY DO MEN Dress up?
One theory is that transvestism is a way of offering a resistance to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they believe awkward as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in female's apparel occasionally. Some men cross-dress purely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can entirely be met by the comfort that wearing hosiery provides them.
For many crossdressers, dressing up is an unbelievably sexual practice. Most cross-dressers have their first crossdressing response around puberty or in adolescence. The first response is likely to be sexually exciting and the adolescent will persist with the practice. However, transvestism is not just a sexual deviation. There are many men who get a kick out of crossdressing, but the accepted view of most experts on the topic is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men cross-dress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with a woman.
Crossdressers usually will do this secretly and enjoy when the family leave the home. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but feel like they are simultaneously woman) However, many transvestites just look forward to the feel of certain materials against their bodies and go no further than simply dressing en femme. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their wives might accept the way they are as long as they keep it hush-hush and away from friends and family.Most crossdressers are covert about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Homosexual.
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