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Reasons To Cross Dress
Reasons to cross-dress
Even shrinks have a hard time with this one. They believe it may start around teenage, but, some boys will experiment dressing up in for example their aunt's lingerie and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psychologists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guesstimate on why men choose to dress up as women:
Cross-dressing is another term for transvestism, and this and trans-genderism and the integration of both with gayity are often muddled, even by some practising crossdressers. A typical cross-dresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not cross-dressing. He is not likely to be gay, will prefer female as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is female and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual exhilaration. It seems that the majority of transvestites are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Indeed everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the cross-dresser will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of items of clothing he first used and have a fetish-like fondness to them.
Cross DressWhy do people cross dress? Even psychiatrists have a tricky time with this one. They feel ..... 2/ His initial preferences will grow and he will slowly move on to other clothes and finally into the longing to be dressed completely as feminine and to fantasize for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond fantasy and will wish to retain his male identity.
3/ He will border on trans-sexuality in that he will live and effectively be woman for long periods of time. The only real differentiation between these so-called "secondary" trans-genders and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme cross-dressers, they have no desire to actually be women.
WHY DO MEN Dress up?
One theory is that dressing in womens clothing is a way of presenting a confrontation to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they think awkward as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in female's garments occasionally. Some men dress up at most to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can nothing but be fulfilled by the comfort that wearing something feminine provides them.
For many cross-dressers, crossdressing is an unbelievably sexual act. Most cross-dressers have their first dressing up exposure around puberty or in adolescence. The first circumstance is likely to be sexually exciting and the adolescent will continue with the practice. However, transvestism is not just a sexual deviation. There are many men who get a sexual thrill from cross-dressing, but the accepted view of most experts on the subject is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men crossdress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with female.
Why Crossdress?Even psychiatrists have a difficult time with this one. They thinkthat it starts around early teens, but, some male children ..... Transvestites usually will do this behind locked doors and anticipate when the family leave the house. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but feel like they are simultaneously woman) However, many cross-dressers just anticipate the believe of certain fabrics against their bodies and go no further than at most dressing as a woman. More and more transvestites are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their wives might accept the way they are so long as they keep it secret and away from friends and family.Most crossdressers are hush-hush about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Homosexual.
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