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Why Do Men Cross Dress
Why do men cross dress?
Even psychiatrists have a tricky time with this one. They feel that it starts around early teens, but, some male children will experiment dressing up in for example their mother's dresses and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psychiatrists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a speculation on why men choose to dress up as full-time females:
Cross-dressing is another term for transvestism, and this and trans-sexuality and the connection of both with gayity are often turned around, even by some practising crossdressers. A typical crossdresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not crossdressing. He is not likely to be effeminate, will prefer full-time females as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is a woman and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual exhilaration. It seems that the majority of transvestites are no more likely to go on to trans-sexuality than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Okay everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the cross-dresser will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of clothing he first used and have a fetish-like obsession to them.
2/ His initial preferences will broaden and he will gradually move on to other wardrobe and finally into the longing to be dressed completely as a woman and to pretend for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond masquerading and will longing to retain his male libido.
3/ He will fringe trans-sexuality in that he will live and pass as woman for lasting periods of time. The purely real distinction between these so-called "secondary" trans-genders and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme crossdressers, they have no wish to actually be women.
WHY DO MEN Dress up?
One theorem is that cross-dressing is a way of presenting a confrontation to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they think depressed as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to wear female's garments occasionally. Some men cross-dress merely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can purely be sated by the comfort that wearing hosiery gives them.
For many transvestites, crossdressing is an extraordinarily sexual act. Most cross-dressers have their first cross-dressing exposure around puberty or in adolescence. The first experience is likely to be sexually exciting and the young person will continue with the practice. However, transvestism is not just a sexual variant. There are a large number of men who get a buzz from dressing up, but the accepted view of most experts on the subject is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men cross-dress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with feminine.
Medical Questions Crossdressingtransvestism and trans-gender Even behavioral analysts have a difficult time with this one. They think that it starts around ..... Cross-dressers usually will do this secretly and anticipate when the family leave the house. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but feel like they are simultaneously female) However, many cross-dressers just anticipate the believe of certain materials against their bodies and go no further than commonly dressing as a woman. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their wives might accept the way they are inasmuch as they keep it behind closed doors and away from friends and family.Most crossdressers are concealed about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Gay.
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