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Is Transvestism A Fetish
Crossdressing TipsWhy do transvestism? Even therapists have a tricky time with this one. They think that it starts around teenage, but, some boys will ..... Is Transvestism a fetish?
Even shrinks have a tricky time with this one. They believe that it starts around teenage, but, some young boys will experiment dressing up in say their mother's lingerie and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psychiatrists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guesstimate on why men choose to dress up as women:
Cross-dressing is another term for crossdressing, and this and trans-genderism and the linking of both with gayity are often confused, even by some practising cross-dressers. A typical crossdresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not dressing up. He is not likely to be homosexual, will prefer full-time females as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is female and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual excitement. It seems that the majority of crossdressers are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Of course everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the cross-dresser will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of wardrobe he first used and have a fetish-like obsession to them.
2/ His initial choices will grow and he will gently move on to other clothing and finally into the desire to be dressed completely as a woman and to fantasise for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond fantasy and will longing to retain his male libido.
3/ He will become more interested in trans-genderism in that he will live and masquerade as woman for lasting periods of time. The purely real distinction between these alleged "secondary" trans-genders and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme transvestites, they have no desire to actually be women.
WHY DO MEN Cross-dress?
One theorem is that cross-dressing is a way of putting forward a resistance to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they speculate unhappy as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in women's clothes occasionally. Some men dress up merely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can nothing but be sated by the comfort that wearing stockings gives them.
For many crossdressers, crossdressing is an intensely sexual act. Most transvestites have their first crossdressing exposure around teenage or in adolescence. The first incident is likely to be sexually arousing and the youth will continue with the practice. However, cross-dressing is not just a sexual variant. There are a large number of men who get a kick out of crossdressing, but the accepted view of most experts on the topic is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men cross-dress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with feminine.
Crossdressing Stories FantasiesWhat motivates a transvestite? Even psychologists have a involved time with this one. They think that it starts around teenage, but, .....
Crossdressers usually will do this in private and enjoy when the wife and kids leave the house. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but feel like they are simultaneously woman) However, many transvestites just enjoy the speculate of certain materials against their bodies and go no further than purely dressing en femme. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their spouses might accept the way they are so long as they keep it hush-hush and away from friends and family.Most transvestites are concealed about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Gay.
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