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Why Do People Cross Dress
Why do people cross dress?
Even therapists have a hard time with this one. They feel that it starts around puberty, but, some male children will experiment dressing up in for example their mother's dresses and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psychiatrists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guesstimate on why men choose to dress up as female:
Cross-dressing is another term for crossdressing, and this and trans-genderism and the integration of both with androgynousity are often muddled, even by some practising cross-dressers. A typical transvestite would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not dressing up. He is not likely to be androgynous, will prefer female as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is feminine and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual exhilaration. It seems that the majority of crossdressers are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Of course everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the transvestite will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of clothes he first used and have a fetish-like fixation to them.
2/ His initial preferences will grow and he will slowly move on to other clothes and finally into the longing to be dressed completely as a woman and to make believe for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond fantasy and will need to retain his male individuality.
3/ He will become more interested in trans-sexuality in that he will live and pass off as woman for lengthy periods of time. The nothing but real contrast between these so-called "secondary" transsexuals and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme crossdressers, they have no need to actually be full-time females.
WHY DO MEN Dress up?
One theory is that cross-dressing is a way of expounding a challenge to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they speculate dissatisfied as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to wear women's wardrobe occasionally. Some men cross-dress simply to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can purely be met by the comfort that wearing hosiery gives them.
For many crossdressers, cross-dressing is an extraordinarily sexual practice. Most cross-dressers have their first dressing up incident around puberty or in adolescence. The first circumstance is likely to be sexually exciting and the adolescent will persist with the practice. However, crossdressing is not just a sexual variant. There are plenty of men who get a buzz from dressing up, but the accepted view of most experts on the topic is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men crossdress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with female.
Transvestites usually will do this in private and enjoy when the family leave the house. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but believe like they are simultaneously woman) However, many crossdressers just anticipate the think of certain materials against their skin and go no further than commonly dressing en femme. More and more transvestites are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their wives might accept the way they are so long as they keep it private and away from friends and family.Most crossdressers are confidential about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Homosexual.
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