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Transvestism And Trans Gender
Japanese Fiction CrossdressingWhy do people cross dress? Even therapists have a hard time with this one. They feel that it starts around puberty, ..... transvestism and trans-gender
Even behavioral analysts have a difficult time with this one. They think that it starts around early teens, but, some boys will experiment dressing up in for example their sister's clothing and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. therapists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guess on why men choose to dress up as full-time females:
Cross-dressing is another term for dressing in womens clothing, and this and trans-genderism and the integration of both with homosexuality are often confused, even by some practising transvestites. A typical cross-dresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not dressing up. He is not likely to be gay, will prefer female as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is feminine and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual exhilaration. It seems that the majority of cross-dressers are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Naturally everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the crossdresser will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of clothes he first used and have a fetish-like attachment to them.
2/ His initial choices will expand and he will gently move on to other wardrobe and finally into the longing to be dressed completely as feminine and to make believe for periods of time that he is female, but he will not want to go beyond pretending and will wish to retain his male identity.
3/ He will fringe trans-genderism in that he will live and masquerade as woman for long periods of time. The entirely real differentiation between these so-named "secondary" transsexuals and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme transvestites, they have no longing to actually be women.
WHY DO MEN Crossdress?
One speculation is that crossdressing is a way of expounding a confrontation to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they speculate unhappy as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to put on women's clothes occasionally. Some men dress up purely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can entirely be sated by the comfort that wearing women's clothes gives them.
For many cross-dressers, crossdressing is an intensely sexual behavior pattern. Most transvestites have their first cross-dressing response around puberty or in adolescence. The first response is likely to be sexually arousing and the adolescent will persist with the practice. However, dressing in womens clothing is not just a sexual variant. There are a large number of men who get a sexual thrill from dressing up, but the accepted view of most experts in this field is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men dress up is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with feminine.
Transvestites usually will do this behind locked doors and look forward to when the family leave the home. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but speculate like they are simultaneously female) However, many cross-dressers just anticipate the feel of certain clothing against their skin and go no further than entirely dressing as a woman. More and more cross-dressers are "coming out of the closet" and if lucky, their wives might accept the way they are inasmuch as they keep it covert and away from friends and family.Most transvestites are confidential about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Homosexual.
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