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Motivation For Transvestism
motivation for transvestism
Even therapists have a tricky time with this one. They speculate that it starts around teenage, but, some boys will experiment dressing up in say their aunt's dresses and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psychiatrists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guess on why men choose to dress up as full-time females:
Cross-dressing is another term for transvestism, and this and trans-genderism and the affiliation of both with homosexuality are often confused, even by some practising cross-dressers. A typical transvestite would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not dressing up. He is not likely to be androgynous, will prefer women as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is feminine and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual stimulation. It seems that the majority of cross-dressers are no more likely to go on to trans-sexuality than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Of course everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the crossdresser will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of wardrobe he first used and have a fetish-like liking to them.
Two Boys Crossdressingwhat is transvestism Even therapists have a hard time with this one. They think that it starts around ..... 2/ His initial preferences will grow and he will gently move on to other wardrobe and finally into the need to be dressed completely as feminine and to fantasize for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond pretending and will need to retain his male personality.
3/ He will border on trans-genderism in that he will live and pass off as woman for lasting periods of time. The only real difference between these so-called "secondary" trans-genders and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme cross-dressers, they have no wish to actually be full-time females.
WHY DO MEN Dress up?
One theory is that dressing in womens clothing is a way of presenting a challenge to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they feel awkward as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in female's garments occasionally. Some men crossdress simply to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can nothing but be sated by the comfort that wearing stockings affords them.
For many crossdressers, dressing up is an unbelievably sexual activity. Most crossdressers have their first dressing up response around the age of sexual awareness or in adolescence. The first adventure is likely to be sexually exciting and the young person will carry on with the practice. However, transvestism is not just a sexual variant. There are plenty of men who get a kick out of crossdressing, but the accepted view of most experts on the subject is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men dress en femme is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with female.
Cross-dressers usually will do this in private and enjoy when the wife and kids leave the house. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but think like they are simultaneously female) However, many transvestites just look forward to the believe of certain clothing against their bodies and go no further than purely dressing up. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if fortunate, their wives might accept the way they are as long as they keep it hush-hush and away from friends and family.Most cross-dressers are covert about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Gay.
Japanese Fiction CrossdressingWhy do people cross dress? Even therapists have a hard time with this one. They feel that it starts around puberty, .....
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