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What Is Transvestism
what is transvestism
Even therapists have a hard time with this one. They think that it starts around teenage, but, some male children will experiment dressing up in say their mother's dresses and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. behavioral analysts don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guesstimate on why men choose to dress up as women:
Cross-dressing is another term for crossdressing, and this and trans-genderism and the relationship of both with homosexuality are often turned around, even by some practising transvestites. A typical transvestite would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not dressing up. He is not likely to be gay, will prefer women as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is feminine and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual arousal. It seems that the majority of cross-dressers are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. Indeed everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the transvestite will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of items of clothing he first used and have a fetish-like obsession to them.
2/ His initial choices will evolve and he will slowly move on to other clothing and finally into the wish to be dressed completely as feminine and to fantasise for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond masquerading and will desire to retain his male personality.
3/ He will teeter on the edge of trans-genderism in that he will live and pass off as woman for lengthy periods of time. The purely real distinction between these so-called "secondary" trans-genders and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme transvestites, they have no wish to actually be women.
WHY DO MEN Crossdress?
One theorem is that dressing in womens clothing is a way of putting forward a challenge to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they feel unhappy as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in women's clothes occasionally. Some men crossdress just to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can nothing but be met by the comfort that wearing women's clothes gives them.
For many cross-dressers, crossdressing is an extraordinarily sexual activity. Most transvestites have their first cross-dressing exposure around the age of sexual awareness or in adolescence. The first perception is likely to be sexually stimulating and the teenager will persist with the practice. However, dressing in womens clothing is not just a sexual variant. There are plenty of men who get a kick out of cross-dressing, but the accepted view of most experts on the subject is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men dress up is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with a woman.
Cross-dressers usually will do this in secret and anticipate when the wife and kids leave the house. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but believe like they are simultaneously female) However, many transvestites just look forward to the believe of certain materials against their skin and go no further than merely dressing up. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if lucky, their spouses might accept the way they are so long as they keep it confidential and away from friends and family.Most cross-dressers are hush-hush about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Homosexual.
Japanese Fiction CrossdressingWhy do people cross dress? Even therapists have a hard time with this one. They feel that it starts around puberty, .....
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