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What Is Cross Dressing
what is cross dressing
Even therapists have a tricky time with this one. They feel that it starts around teenage, but, some male children will experiment dressing up in for example their sister's dresses and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. psychiatrists don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a speculation on why men choose to dress up as women:
Cross-dressing is another term for dressing in womens clothing, and this and trans-sexuality and the connection of both with gayity are often turned around, even by some practising transvestites. A typical transvestite would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not crossdressing. He is not likely to be homosexual, will prefer women as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is feminine and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual exhilaration. It seems that the majority of transvestites are no more likely to go on to trans-genderism than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. To be sure everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the transvestite will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of clothing he first used and have a fetish-like liking to them.
2/ His initial preferences will expand and he will gradually move on to other clothes and finally into the need to be dressed completely as feminine and to pretend for periods of time that he is feminine, but he will not want to go beyond masquerading and will longing to retain his male being.
3/ He will border on trans-sexuality in that he will live and masquerade as woman for extended periods of time. The nothing but real contrast between these alleged "secondary" trans-genders and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme crossdressers, they have no wish to actually be full-time females.
WHY DO MEN Cross-dress?
One theorem is that transvestism is a way of presenting a cry out against to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they believe unsatisfied as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in women's wardrobe occasionally. Some men crossdress merely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can just be sated by the comfort that wearing stockings gives them.
For many transvestites, crossdressing is an extraordinarily sexual activity. Most cross-dressers have their first cross-dressing involvement around teenage or in adolescence. The first incident is likely to be sexually stimulating and the teenager will carry on with the practice. However, transvestism is not just a sexual variant. There are a large number of men who get a buzz from cross-dressing, but the accepted view of most experts in this field is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men crossdress is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with female.
Female To Male CrossdressingReasons to cross-dress Even shrinks have a hard time with this one. They believe it may start around teenage, but, some boys .....
Cross-dressers usually will do this behind locked doors and enjoy when the family leave the home. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but believe like they are simultaneously woman) However, many cross-dressers just anticipate the feel of certain materials against their bodies and go no further than commonly dressing up. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if lucky, their wives might accept the way they are as long as they keep it hush-hush and away from friends and family.Most crossdressers are covert about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Gay.
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