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Why crossdress?
Even psychiatrists have a difficult time with this one. They thinkthat it starts around early teens, but, some male children will experiment dressing up in say their aunt's lingerie and race around the house and turn out to be full-fledged heterosexual males in years to come. behavioral analysts don't seem to know when it starts or really why and what I am typing out is basically a guess on why men choose to dress up as women:
Cross-dressing is another term for transvestism, and this and trans-sexuality and the link of both with androgynousity are often confused, even by some practising cross-dressers. A typical cross-dresser would be a man who appears quite normal at all times when he is not cross-dressing. He is not likely to be bisexual, will prefer female as his sex partners and will most certainly not want to lose his penis. In contrast, a typical male transsexual will not identify in any way with his physically normal male body. He believes that he is a woman and is trapped in the body of a man. To him, his penis is a mistake of nature and he will want to get rid of it.
Some men use cross-dressing for the purpose of sexual stimulation. It seems that the majority of cross-dressers are no more likely to go on to trans-sexuality than a social drinker is to alcoholism or an occasional cannabis user to injecting hard drugs. All right everyone has to start somewhere and there is some evidence to suggest that the longer you cross-dress, the further along the continuum may find yourself moving.
After his initial experiences, the transvestite will progress to one of 3 main groups:
1/ He will stay with the type of clothes he first used and have a fetish-like obsession to them.
2/ His initial choices will expand and he will gradually move on to other clothes and finally into the longing to be dressed completely as female and to fantasize for periods of time that he is a woman, but he will not want to go beyond fantasy and will need to retain his male being.
3/ He will border on trans-sexuality in that he will live and pass as woman for lasting periods of time. The purely real distinction between these so-named "secondary" transsexuals and the full transsexual is that, again, like all the less extreme cross-dressers, they have no longing to actually be women.
Crossdressing TipsWhy do transvestism? Even therapists have a tricky time with this one. They think that it starts around teenage, but, some boys will .....
WHY DO MEN Dress up?
One speculation is that cross-dressing is a way of putting forward a opposition to society's preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they speculate bored as a man. Others didn't mind the male state, but also like to dress in female's apparel occasionally. Some men dress up merely to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can purely be met by the comfort that wearing hosiery provides them.
For many cross-dressers, cross-dressing is an intensely sexual preoccupation. Most transvestites have their first dressing up incident around teenage or in adolescence. The first sensation is likely to be sexually stimulating and the adolescent will carry on with the practice. However, crossdressing is not just a sexual variant. There are plenty of men who get a buzz from cross-dressing, but the accepted view of most experts in this field is that they are not in the majority.
One of the main reasons why men dress up is to create, in themselves, the ideal woman, so they no longer have to fear rejection, criticism or disappointment which might come with attempted of intercourse with a woman.
Cross-dressers usually will do this secretly and enjoy when the wife and kids leave the home. They have their day planned! They will even go so far as to shave off body hair, take a hot, perfumed, bubble bath, and dress in something silky. Many males will masturbate (they are male, but believe like they are simultaneously woman) However, many crossdressers just anticipate the think of certain clothing against their skin and go no further than at most dressing as a woman. More and more crossdressers are "coming out of the closet" and if lucky, their spouses might accept the way they are as long as they keep it private and away from friends and family.
Most cross-dressers are concealed about it and THEY ARE NOT USUALLY Gay.
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